Coaching and ecology are sometimes neglected by many NLP and coaching training schools.  Yet, ecology is one of the most integral things you should always look out for. We don’t live in an isolated space, we all have live in systems, or with other people, have relationships with others and ourselves. It is important that we do not try to achieve outcomes, that somehow violate or go against that. Now matter how positive your intentions are, the goal is to get your client from point A to point B, where point B is as positive of a place to be in. A place of congruency.

It is important you always check and abide by ecology. If your intention is helping people or improving yourself, it is one of the things to always be aware off in your application of NLP and coaching. Not doing this, can result in change that is not desirable, your client tends to loose more then gain. And in some cases, the results can be disastrous.

Some less then skilled and insecure NLP Practitioners can only help someone to quit a compulsion, by creating aversion! It is much better to install “choice” in your clients.  Besides, creating “choice” lasts a life time. An aversion only lasts as long as it is disproven. Creating an aversion to chocolate lasts as long as the next time you eat a chocolate bar and notice how wonderful it is.

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Never make a change towards an incongruent state, be ecological in your application and leave people in an congruent state!

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